eFFeCTS of bREAK-up on the Masculine COunTerPart

Stone hearted, tough, less emotional; generally these are words used to describe a guy in a relationship. There are several myths in people’s mind that boys are not that sensitive towards their relationship or fully committed towards a relationship as the girls are. It more often believed that the root cause of a break-up is the cold and uninterested attitude of the boys.It is because of this attitude they cannot have an amicale relationship, they assume. More often it is also believed that there is hardly any psychological effect of break up on us (boys).

Now let’s clear our mind of all that crap, and have this thing implanted in it forever. Males are as committed and sensitive towards a relationship as females are and are as much hurt as girls are because of a relationship break-up.

Now let us see how deeply the masculine gender is affected by a break-up and sometimes even more than their feminine counterparts

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Girls generally sulk very much; cry their heart out, talk with their friends about the breakup and etc etc which helps them to bring down the psychological pressure off their minds and after a small period of time, and be normal again (i.e. to look for a new guy who can dump him again). Girls can also share their pain with their family members (only sisters and understanding brothers, less chances with parents). But these cannot be a rehab option for the, as often siad "the stone hearted guys". Some may say this is all because of the masculine ego that comes in the way. But all of this is shit. Now let us practically see why males do not have the above choices:-

1.       .)Most of the girls are impressed with the boys’ macho look. Thus sulking and crying and all that doesn’t go with the image. And if we do; our future is screwed big time (matlab apne friend circle me to koi milne se rahi……in short katta). Thus is not at all a feasible option.

2.       .)If we guys go and chat with our friends about our break up, the first comment that would be lined up….. chu**** kat gaya saa** ka, apna katwa k aaya hai, dum ni tha bandi patai hi kyu ghochu…… I don’t think this is a feasible option at all, i.e. you would not like to get abused at such a time. Thus we cannot even talk to our friends about it to ease down the pressure.

3.      .) Many a time’s guys are blamed for an unsuccessful relationship, which quite absurd and amusing to me as why cant girls be the reason for a relationship failure. Are all girls pure at heart, cant they have certain issues (which does not involve any of the boys mistake) due to which a relationship is called off. 

Thus I feel that all this prejudice about guys that they are the whole and sole reason of a sour or unsuccessful relationship is totally crap. So what do you feel about this whole issue? Are boys really the whole and sole reason of a breakup?

P.S: no offence to girls except a few…..and not because of personal grudges. Not applicable to all types of girls in this ever expanding universe……